Oh dear, yes, there is a time in your life where you will find
yourself on the saddest spectrum of all. The one where you go from not
missing her to missing her a little and then suddenly you are missing
her like she has gone on and died. And when you finally reach that end
of the chart and get to the point where missing her is driving you up a
wall of regret, you might start to find yourself at a total loss of how
to deal with it. So now you are sitting here wondering, ‘
What is the next step here? What do I do?’
You are totally in your right mind to ask yourself that question. And
you are even smarter for visiting this page today to help you with the
answer. We know that this type of stuff can be ultimately difficult, and
maybe even a little depressing, to take on. We get that. Love is known
for how messy it can be for a reason. Feelings get slopped all over the
place. Up is down and down is sideways. But don’t have too many worries
about it, because we might actually have a solution for you. If you
really find that you are missing her this much, then maybe you are right
to assume that you two are meant to be together. Or at least meant to
give it another shot. We aren’t sure what happened or why you are
feeling this way, but we sure do know how to help you handle it! Our
advice? Make her miss you like crazy! And yes, it is totally possible
to do so!! How? Well, luckily for you we know a few proven ways that
might just help you accomplish that. Making someone miss you can be
challenging as all heck, but it is not totally unachievable. You can do
this, but you probably need our help. So let’s get down to business and
do just that. Keep reading to see how you can make her miss you like
crazy with these 25 following, successful and proven to work, tips
below!
How To Make Her Miss You… Like Crazy! (Tips That Actually Work!)
And we mean this. This is why this is the number one on this list!
Because it is so dang important to remember when you are trying to make
somebody miss you. They are not going to miss you if you are constantly
throwing yourself at them with attempts at revival. You want to let
things happen naturally. Pushing too hard can, and probably will, drive
her away instead of making her want to come back to you. You want to let
her take things at her own pace. Forcing anything is never a good idea.
There might be an air of resentment in the end if you do it too
quickly. Or it might not give her enough time to really decide whether
she wants to miss you or not. Just trust us: Don’t try too hard!!
Instead of trying too hard, try hard at playing hard to get. We all
know that this is a more effective way of getting someone to start
missing you. When you put a little bit of distance, or even a lot,
between you then it gives her time and space to realize what she is
missing in the first place. If you are constantly around and chatting
her up, she will not have any time to have that feeling of missing you
from her life, because you will always be there! Stop picking up your
phone each time that she texts or calls you. Make other plans, go out
and be with other people. Although you want to make her your number
priority, we suggest that you don’t do it! Let her know that there are
other important things in your life. This will make her want to work
harder at becoming your number one priority.
- Apologize If You Messed Up
Okay, so this tip might not be for every single situation, but it is a
proven tip that works in one certain situation. That situation would be
one where you did something really unforgiving or did something to
upset her in some way. You will never get here to miss you if she is
truly angered by some of your words or actions. A sincere apology might
be the only route to go if this is the case. Why would she miss someone
who hurt her and didn’t even say sorry for it? So get going on that
apology letter, text or phone call. You would be surprised at how much a
few simple words can be when it comes to these types of things.
If you did end up doing something awful to her that warrants an
apology from you, you might want to consider also making a grand gesture
towards her. Why? To show her that you actually care about her. She
might have come to believe that the romance between the two of you is
dead because of what you did. So now it is up to you to make her aware
that the romance between you is very much alive. We suggest getting her
flowers, her favorite gift or planning a major surprise for her. Of
course you want to avoid going overboard. Don’t bombard her with these
things! Just one, big, special gesture should do it!
- Don’t Blow Up Her Phone Or Social Media
Nothing says ‘crazy’ like becoming the annoying guy that starts
constantly blowing up her phone. Whether through social media or text,
repeatedly texting or calling her is always going to be a bad idea. It’s
okay to indulge in a little bit of her social media. Like a thing here
and there. But if you are always popping up she is going to assume you
are probably stalking her. Lay low and keep things simple! Do not over
do it. This will bring her to miss you more and more. She is going to
find herself wishing you were liking more things or starting more
conversation with her… Once you stop doing so in the first place.
You want to make sure that you are taking care of your appearance
during this time that the two of you are apart. Looking like a mess is
not going to bring her to miss you like crazy at all. Instead it is
going to make her thankful that she isn’t around you. Hygiene, style and
everything in between is important when it comes to trying to appeal to
someone. No one wants someone that looks like a rugged mess, right?
Right. So look your best! This is going to make her miss you more each
and everyday. She’s going to find herself wanting to see this beautiful
version of you sometime soon.
Don’t get us wrong- A guy with a good level of confidence is always
kind of hot! However, getting too cocky and letting your arrogance
overwhelm her is going to be NO GOOD! Arrogance is
not hot. Don’t
ever forget that. Being humble will make her miss you more than being a
complete jerk face because you don’t know how to stop hyping yourself
up. Being this way can also bring her to believe that you care more
about yourself than you do about her. This is no way to get her missing
you. No way at all.
We know that you might be a little bitter that she is not focusing
all of her attention on you or that the two of you aren’t vibing at the
moment. We get it. But, and this is a big but, do not be angry at her.
Lashing out at her is going to push her even farther away from you. Why
would she miss someone who is going out his way to make her feel bad
about herself? The answer: She won’t! She won’t miss someone like that
at all. Instead she will find that she is grateful she, you, or both of
you ended things with one another. Be nice. Being nice is the only
option when it comes to this! Otherwise she will not miss you like
crazy. That’s a fact!
This isn’t some 80’s movie. Standing outside her window with Spotify
blasting above your head isn’t going to get you anywhere… Except maybe
arrested. Planning run ins with her or always showing up where she is
will also be a bad idea, my friend. We know that you might have the urge
to see her when you can, but don’t do it. How is she ever going to find
out if she misses you if you never go away? We know it’s blunt, but
it’s the truth!
- Give Her Space If She Needs It
Can’t miss someone if they never left, now can we? Most definitely
not. So give her space. This is super crucial advice when it comes to
getting her to miss you like crazy! Especially if you have done
something to her that has caused a very unhappy reaction. Giving her
space will give her time to cool off or become less distressed with you.
This will also give her time to think about what she wants. In this
time, with the space you give her, she will be able to clearly think
about whether she wants to give things another go or not. And if she
doesn’t, then it just simply wasn’t meant to be.
Like we said, gestures are important when trying to get someone’s
attention. But overdoing them is not. You want to make sure you find the
perfect balance in this kind of thing. Which, we know, can be
difficult, but it is nowhere near impossible. Sending flowers or
chocolates is a great idea. However, we suggest that you only do it
once! Let her know that you are thinking of her, but don’t overwhelm her
with it. Keeping things simple is key. You want her to miss you, not
think you are being a little too desperate.
- Don’t Reek Of Desperation
Speaking of desperation… That reminds us, don’t do it! Don’t be
that guy.
The one who is throwing himself at her feet every single day. We know
you might feel the need to grovel just a little bit, but don’t do it. At
least not until you guys open up a good gateway of communication. This
will usually happen when she finally realizes just how much she really
misses you! Being desperate? Yeah, that ish is so not attractive.
Alright, so read this proven tip very carefully. Really, read it slowly! Making someone jealous can work to make them miss you.
If you do it in the
right way!
This is vital information. Going too far with this can lead to disaster
and will blow up right in your face. Trust us, we know these things. So
how can you make her jealous in the
right way vs. the
wrong one?
Easy. Spend time with other girls, but do not goes as far as to get
physically intimate with them or get in a relationship with them. Also,
do your best not to shove it too far in her face. Make it apparent you
are sharing your time with someone else, but don’t make it too
noticeable. She will eventually catch on to the fact that you are going
out of your way to make her jealous. You just want her thinking that
your mind is starting to wander on to other people.
Rushing anything is never going to be a great plan, bud. You want to
take things slowly. Give her some real time to actually start to miss
you. Being too overbearing about it can send her in the direction of
losing interest in you. And we are pretty sure that is exactly the
opposite of what you are aiming for her. Let her take things at her own
pace. It’s for the best to do it this way. Again, we want things to
happen naturally. Let her miss you like crazy on her own terms, not
yours.
A truly awesome way to make her start to miss you, and yes it is
proven, is to focus your attention on her, her wants and her needs. She
is going to take note of these kinds of things. She is going to think of
you as a much nicer person if you do. She is going to miss that type of
attention in her life when it is gone. So do the best that you can at
proving to her that you are worried about her happiness! It’s worth it
in the end.
- Be Her Shoulder To Lean On
You are also going to want to make an effort to be there for her when
she needs you. Like when she needs a shoulder to cry on or someone to
vent to. Of course, we get that you don’t want to be friend-zoned with
that type of thing, but if you play your cards right and follow all of
these tips, that simply won’t happen. She is going to appreciate you as
a person if you show her that you care and that you will always be
there for her. She is going to miss you when she needs someone to be
there for her. And hopefully she will find herself being drawn back to
you when she needs someone to rely on.
Being petty towards her is a good way to drive her crazy in a bad
way! We mean it! Don’t be that guy! It is understandable that you are
feeling a bit standoffish because, at this time, she might not be
missing you like you want her to. But be patient. Don’t let your anger
or pettiness leak out. Keep that all bottled up inside and then go ahead
to reaping the rewards from doing so!
- Let Her Know How You Feel
We always think that talking things out is a good idea. She might
actually start missing you more if she knows that you also miss her. If
you do not let her know, at least once, that you are finding yourself a
little lost without her then she might never know that you two can be
reunited. She might think that you couldn’t care less about her or that
you don’t miss her. You missing her is going to spark the fire inside
her that will make her miss you. It’s proven to work in more cases than
not. She might not give you a second thought if she assumes that you are
not thinking about her! However, it is important to not be
too much
about your feelings. Like we said, letting her know once, maybe twice
if you’re feeling ballsy, is a good idea. But leave it at that! From
there on out she knows and that is all you need at this time.
- But Don’t Do It All The Time
Yes, telling her how you feel every day, all day is not going to be
good. It will only make it seem like you are desperate. She might not
actually believe that you miss her if you say it too often. You want to
keep things a little vague. Mystery is going to ignite her curiosity.
She is going to want to reach out to you for more information (in her
own time) if you leave a little left unsaid. Gushing too much can ruin
everything. Let her come to you to find out more. Don’t just give it
away for free. Trust this tip, it is more than proven to work!
Being shady, flakey or all over the place? Yeah, not a supreme plan
in our opinion. You want to stay on the same wavelength for as long as
you possibly can! Be consistent. This means being so with your words
and your
actions. And doing it as much as you can. Letting things fly all over
the place might lead her to believe that you are not a serious
personality type. You want to show her that you are not that kind of
person. Be real, be honest, be straightforward and stay consistent. It
will be better this way!
Like we just mentioned- Be honest! Honesty is key in any type of
relationship. We highly doubt that she will find herself missing you
like crazy if you are a liar, a cheater or you beat around the bush with
things too much. Girls like guys who can be up front with things like
their feelings. No one is going to trust in you if you are any less than
honest with them, right? Right!
Okay, so we don’t want you to misinterpret this. We don’t think that
you should go out of your way to change yourself for anyone! Much less a
girl! However, if it is something super negative, maybe take her
advice. You might want to think about whether or not there is anything
that you could change about yourself or your life that would make you a
better person? She might find herself missing you if she realizes that
you are willing to take the negative things about yourself and turn them
into more positive things.
- Don’t Spill Too Much Information
Keep things ominous if you can. Leaving everything and anything that
you are doing out in the open will not peak her interest in you. She
will already know everything that she needs to know. You want to have
her wondering what you are up to, what you are feeling and who are you
hanging around. She is going to feel an urge to inquire… If she simply
has no other way of knowing. This, in a sense, is going to be her
missing you!
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